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Therefore I tell you, stop being perpetually uneasy (anxious and worried) about your life, what you shall eat or what you shall drink; or about your body, what you shall put on. Is not life greater [in quality] than food, and the body [far above and more excellent] than clothing? Look at the birds of the air; they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father keeps feeding them. Are you not worth much more than they? And who of you by worrying and being anxious can add one unit of measure (cubit) to his stature or to the span of his life

Worry and torment, two major distractions, and two major things that keep us from walking in our purpose. I was talking with a girlfriend a few months back, and we were discussing this subject. Sometimes in life we go through situations and circumstances that cause us to be worried about our well-being, or we deal with relationships that cause us pain or mental and physical suffering (Which is torment). Sometimes it’s things that we have brought on ourselves, and sometimes ppl treat you wrong for no reason, and you are left trying to put your emotions back together. As a woman, I can honestly say I have felt this way in the past, and if you aren’t careful, the temporary situations you deal with can start to affect your life long decisions.

When we worry about anything, we are ultimately telling God that he can’t handle the situation that we are dealing with. We all go through troubles, but we have to remember that everything works out for “The good of those that love the lord”(Romans 8:28). God has a specific plan and purpose for our lives, and if we obey him, he will always work each and every situation out for us. He cares for us. In my life I have dealt with many trials and tribulations, and they may have not always worked out the way that I wanted them too, but they worked out in my favor! We have to truly lean, trust, rely, and believe that God loves us so much, to the point that he would never forsake us, leave us, or take away from us, unless it was for our good. We have to keep to the forefront of our minds that this is the same God that saved Daniel from the Lions Den, and Kept Goliath from beating David to death. What did these two have in common? They had unwaivering faith in the power of God to change their situations. It’s not to say they didn’t have the feeling of fear, but they didn’t let their emotions talk them out of what they knew the truth was, that God will take care of them no matter what the situation.

You may have been in a relationship where you were cheated on, or dealt with feelings of abandonment because your parents were not there. What the enemy does, is use these situations to create an emotional jail for you. Torment is one of  the worst type of emotions to deal with (I believe) because it’s constantly at the forefront of your mind. A woman or man who has been cheated on may start to ask herself “What am I not doing that this woman is doing?” or “Am I pretty enough?” “Am I smart enough?” “What does she have over me?”  Insecurity starts to set in, and a woman who may have once loved herself may try to change to be what she “Thinks” a man wants her to be instead of being the uniquely made creature God has called her to be. Low self-esteem starts to set in, then bitterness, and then depression. The Devil is a liar! No matter what you have been through, or what you have done, God loves you, and has forgiven you, and you have to forgive those that have wronged you, period. Believe that God is a restorer, and trust that he will heal your broken heart, that is his job. He will deal with those who have wronged you (Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord). He won’t overlook a thing, believe and trust me on that. God wants you whole and healed, and not holding on to what others have done.

The enemy knows that if you focus on Worrying about your troubles and your tormented by your past that it will distract you from doing what you are ultimately called to do. Don’t allow anything to crush your spirit, take your joy, or create bitterness on the inside of you. God has a perfect plan for your life, and it’s so much bigger than the issues that you are dealing with. Your issues are mere distractions, and God can pull you out of anything. Our thought life can play a major role in our emotions, that is why the bible says;

“Whatever is worthy of reverence and is honorable and seemly, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely and lovable, whatever is kind and winsome and gracious, if there is any virtue and excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think on and weigh and take account of these things [fix your minds on them](Phil 4:8).

We also need to cast down all negative thoughts, and not dwell on them “ casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ( 2 Corinthians 10:3-5).

When it says to bring all thoughts into captivity, that ultimately means to control your thoughts, and cast down the negative ones. We all have this power, we just don’t activate it.

God is on your side. He loves you, cares for you, and wants to see you doing well! Don’t let the troubles of life distract you from obtaining everything that God has for you.

In love,

Dara Nichole

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The mind of Christ


This is an article from Joyce Meyer, I thought it was an awesome read:

Where the Mind Goes, the Man Follows
by Joyce Meyer
I have done a lot of teaching in the past twenty-five years, and I am convinced that one of the
greatest areas in which we need help is the area of our thinking. No matter how many messages
you and I hear about the mind, we can always benefit from hearing another one.
I believe that where the mind goes, the man follows. Jesus said in Luke 6:45, …out of the
abundance (overflow) of the heart his mouth speaks. And in Proverbs 23:7 the Bible says, …as he
[a man] thinks in his heart, so is he…. In both of these scriptures, the word heart refers to the
mind. In other words, our thoughts are the forerunners of both our words and actions. Whatever
you and I allow into our inner life will eventually be seen in our outer life.
So in order to deal with wrong behavior, we need to deal with wrong thinking. My deep desire is
to help us get our thinking lined up with His Word. As a result, the words of our mouths and the
actions of our lives will get straightened out in the process. I believe the key to victory is learning
how to think on the things that God wants us to think—to be renewed in our mind by the power
of His Word—instead of thinking on whatever comes into our head.
A House Made of Thoughts
I have come to the realization that our thoughts have the power to either help us or hurt us.
They can affect our health, our moods and our relationships. As a matter of fact, they affect
nearly everything in our lives. When I first began to study the Word, I had many problems in my
life. But a major transition took place in my spirit when I received a revelation about my thinking.
I discovered that the primary reason my life was messed up was because my thinking was
messed up.
The Lord showed me that all of us have an outer life and an inner life. Our outer life is the part
of us that everybody sees, and our inner life is the part that nobody sees, except God and us. The
inner life includes our thoughts, attitudes and motives. God knows every thought that you and I
think. The Bible says that …not a creature exists that is concealed from His sight, but all things
are open and exposed, naked and defenseless to the eyes of Him with Whom we have to do
(Hebrews 4:13).
I like to think of our inner life as a house made of thoughts that is constantly being built. It is
within these “walls” of our thinking that each of us lives. Every thought we accept is like another
brick in the wall of the house we are building. If we accept negative, selfish, or other ungodly
thoughts, our “house” will be a mess, and we will find ourselves walled in with the enemy. But
when we choose to think positive, godly thoughts, the “house” in which we live will be a blessing,
filled with the rewards of righteousness.
Our minds are just like computers—we can only get out of them what we put into them. When I
first began walking with God, my mind needed major reprogramming. Much of my thinking was
contrary to the Word, and it needed to be changed. Romans 12:2 says, Do not be conformed to
this world (this age), [fashioned after and adapted to its external, superficial customs], but be
transformed (changed) by the [entire] renewal of your mind [by its new ideals and its new
attitude], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what is the good and acceptable and perfect will
of God….
By the grace of God, I came to the understanding that if I wanted to have a better life, I needed
to have better thinking. Little by little, God began to reveal to me different areas in my life where
I had accepted Satan’s lies. The walls of deception I allowed the devil to develop in my mind
needed to be demolished and rebuilt with the truth. With the power of God’s Spirit at work in me,
the renovation process began.
Exposing the Enemy
Once we make the decision to change our thinking, you and I enter into an all-out war with the
enemy, and the battlefield is our mind. Satan knows that if he can dominate our thinking, he can
dominate our life. That is why he often attacks us early in the morning, before our feet ever hit
the floor. He strategically bombards our mind with every negative and ungodly thought
imaginable—all in an effort to set the stage for a day of misery and sorrow.
The Bible says that …we are not [to be] ignorant of his [Satan’s] devices (2 Corinthians 2:11
KJV). Interestingly enough, the word devices is defined by Thayer’s Greek-English Lexicon of the
New Testament as “a mental perception or thought; an evil purpose.” I have found that two of
Satan’s greatest devices he uses against us are worry and reasoning.
When I first began my walk with the Lord, I was a chief worrier. I worried about and tried to
figure out everything. I had to have everything in a certain place in my mind. I had become
addicted to worry and reasoning because it gave me a feeling of being in control. And when I was
in control, I felt comfortable.
Every time I accepted one of Satan’s lies, I gave place to him in my thinking (see Ephesians
4:27). Over the years, this allowed him to develop a stronghold in my mind. Webster’s II New
College Dictionary defines a stronghold as “a fortress; an area dominated or occupied by a special
group.” Mental strongholds can be built out of either good thoughts or bad thoughts. In my case,
my thinking had become dominated by worry and reasoning. I discovered that the only way to
destroy a stronghold of lies is with the truth.
Wielding the Sword
One of the greatest weapons that you and I have is the truth of God’s Word. The Bible says in 2
Corinthians 10:4,5, For the weapons of our warfare are not physical [weapons of flesh and blood],
but they are mighty before God for the overthrow and destruction of strongholds, [Inasmuch as
we] refute arguments and theories and reasonings and every proud and lofty thing that sets itself
up against the [true] knowledge of God; and we lead every thought and purpose away captive
into the obedience of Christ…. If we don’t lead wrong thoughts away captive, the wrong thoughts
will lead us away captive.
When Jesus faced the temptations of Satan in the desert, He spoke the Word and defeated the
enemy (see Luke 4:1-13). That is what God was trying to teach me to do with the thoughts of
worry and reasoning. He wanted me to know, believe and exalt His Word above the ideas of the
enemy and my flesh. Jesus clearly stated in Matthew 6:25-34 that we are not to worry about
anything because God is faithful to provide all that we need, when we need it. Proverbs 3:5,6
says, Lean on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all your heart and mind and do not rely
on your own insight or understanding. In all your ways know, recognize, and acknowledge Him,
and He will direct and make straight and plain your paths.
God opened my eyes to the truth of His Word. More and more, I began to trust what the
Scripture said over what the enemy said. The more I meditated on scriptures like these, the more
my thinking changed and the more freedom I received.
Having my mind renewed did not take place overnight. I have learned that problems that take
years to develop usually take time for God to work out of us. God does sometimes change things
in us instantly through prayer and the laying on of hands. But for the most part, it takes time. As
we daily submit to God, He will faithfully cultivate the character of Christ in us (see 1
Thessalonians 5:23,24). Armed with the truth, we can begin to take back what the devil has
stolen.
Maintaining Mental Freedom
Once we learn how to get free, we then need to learn how to stay free. It’s not enough to just
cast down the wrong thoughts; we have to choose to think the right thoughts. I found this to be
true in my battle against worry and reasoning.
As soon as I learned that God didn’t want me to worry or try to figure everything out, I made
every effort not to give place to it. When wrong thoughts came into my head, I did my best to
cast them down. I would say, “No, I am not going to think that!” For a moment, my mind would
find freedom. However, before long, the thought would come back. Again, I would say, “No, I’m
not going to think that!” But sooner or later, the same thought, or one just like it, would return.
This cycle would go on and on, and sometimes, by the end of the day I was worn out.
One day I remember praying, “God, I can’t go on like this day after day. As soon as I cast down
these wrong thoughts, they come back. What am I supposed to do?” The Lord answered me, “It’s
very simple. Just think about something else. If you are thinking about something good, then
the wrong thought has no place to get in. But if you sit around ‘empty-headed,’ then the evil
thought is always going to jump right back into your mind” (see Matthew 12:43–45).
This was a life-changing revelation for me. I realized that I can’t wait for something good to just
fall into my mind. I need to choose my thoughts on purpose—I need to fix my mind on …whatever
is true, whatever is worthy of reverence and is honorable and seemly, whatever is just, whatever
is pure, whatever is lovely and lovable, whatever is kind and winsome and gracious… (Philippians
4:8). The Bible says in Deuteronomy 30:19 that life and death, blessings and curses, are set
before us. If you and I do not choose thoughts that lead to life, the devil will choose thoughts for
us that lead to death. But when we choose thoughts that lead to life, our lives will be blessed.
I believe this is a major key to victory. Romans 12:21 says that we …overcome (master) evil
with good. I have found that writing a list of all the positive points about a situation or a person,
along with writing down related scriptures, is a very helpful thing to do. After it’s written, I carry
it around and read it out loud every time I’m tempted to give place to wrong thinking. God has
used this method to renew my mind in many areas. I have learned that the more you and I
magnify and meditate on what’s good, the smaller our problems become.
Get In Agreement with God
As we endeavor to line up our thinking with God’s Word, right words and right actions will
follow. Ephesians 4:22–24 says, Strip yourselves of your former nature [put off and discard your
old unrenewed self] which characterized your previous manner of life… And be constantly
renewed in the spirit of your mind [having a fresh mental and spiritual attitude], and put on the
new nature (the regenerate self) created in God’s image, [Godlike] in true righteousness and
holiness.
I believe it’s very important to understand that verse 23 is the bridge between verses 22 and
24. In order to get rid of our old ways and put on the new nature of righteousness and holiness,
you and I need to constantly renew our minds with the truth of God’s Word. I used to be a very
negative person, so it took daily determination for me to reprogram my thinking. But now that it’s
done, God’s positive perspective is almost automatic.
I challenge you to get into God’s Word and see what He says about you and your situations.
Think about what you are thinking about on a regular basis. Don’t just accept thoughts like, I
guess I’m going to be poor and in debt all my life… Nobody’s ever going to want to marry me…
My thinking is never going to change. Instead, get into agreement with God. Begin to think things
like, God wants me to prosper in every way (see 3 John 2). God has the perfect mate that He is
preparing for me while I rest in Him (see Genesis 2:18). God is changing me every day, from one
degree of glory to another, to be just like Jesus (see 2 Corinthians 3:18).
I encourage you to choose to believe and meditate on God’s Word. The more you study the
Word, the more you’ll be able to recognize and reject Satan’s lies. Take God at His Word daily,
and He will bring healing, restoration and rejuvenation to every area of your life!
RENEW YOUR MIND
• Romans 12:2
• 2 Corinthians 2:11
• 2 Corinthians 10:4,5
• Ephesians 4:22–24, 27
• Philippians 4:8
• 1 Thessalonians 5:23,24