God is stronger than your trials and tribulations

How many times have you been through a situation where you didn’t understand why it happened?  The word says: Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivereth him out of them all (Psalm 34:19). Being a Christian isn’t a remedy for having a perfect life, but it is the realization that the Lord is our comfort, can give us peace in the middle of a storm, and gives us hope for our future.

Recently my husband and I lost our first child. This was a traumatic situation where we had to lean on the Lord to get us through.  We didn’t understand why we were going through the situation, or the reason, but God’s word was a peace to us, and through it we understood who God is, and that is where our victory lies. The bible says “The LORD gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with peace.” (Psalm 29:11) and God gave us that.

Instead of focusing on all the things we felt went wrong or what we could have done differently, we trusted that the Lord was in control and that his will was and still is prevailing. We know sometimes the enemy will try to get in your head and tell you one thing, but the devil is a liar, and nothing he says lines up with the word. My husband and I truly believe that we have the victory in this situation and that our future is bright, God loves us and you soo much, and he came to give us abundant life. That is what we cling to.

The wrong thing to do in a traumatic situation is to blame God. We must always remember that the Lord is our help, and that he is on our side(Psalm 124:8, Psalm 33:20, Romans 8:31) trials and tribulations come, and this is where the Word comes into play. You must be faithful and trust that God knows the end from the begininng, and that everything is working out for your good. We know that one day we will have a house full of beautiful children, and when the time is right, we will have that.

If you have been through, or are going through this situation right now, just know that God is on your side. He loves you and will be a comfort to you. Don’t give up faith in the Lord, and in his word he will see you through. He cares for you, and wants nothing but the best for you and your family. Stay strong in the Lord, trust God, and make sure your words line up with the word, and you will receive the things God has specifically for you. God is greater than your situation, and greater than you can believe, he can do the impossible, trust, believe, know that he is an awesome God, and he wants you to have children. Just remember that weeping may endure for a night, but Joy comes in the Morning.  And over time, you will have joy.


About daranichole

Lover of Christ, Wife, mother, author, and entrepreneur! I have a heart for women!

Posted on April 21, 2010, in Uncategorized and tagged , , . Bookmark the permalink. 8 Comments.

  1. You are definitely one of the strongest people I know. Darius and I have been praying for you and Matt… we know that God is your strength. I know we talk on a regular but I just had to leave a comment because this is an awesome post, it definitely shows your trust in God. Love you girl!

  2. This was a beautiful heartfelt writing. I am belive God with you that you and your husband’s quiver will be full (Psalm 127:4-5) of beautiful children. Keep being used to bless people!!

  3. I am a strong believer that God will not PLACE more on you than you can bear. It is a blessing when you are a certain place in the lord that you can truly lean on him for direction and strength. Your words were not only encouraging but a source of strength that only the lord could grant to you. God holds our life in his hands and stay encourage and know that God has an awesome plan for your life. My prayers are with you and your husband during your time of healing for God will see you through. God bless!

  4. Sis,

    Thank you for sharing your families testimony. When trails hit, it is important that we focus on the Word of the Lord instead of what the enemy may try to feed us. I love you guys and I am here if you guys need anything!

  5. Rev 12:11 and they overcame him by the blood of the lamb and by the words of their testimony. Thank you for sharing your story. Many will be blessed and encouraged. Great scriptures and words of comfort. God is in control. We love yall and were praying! The best is yet to come.

  6. I really appreciate your transparency in sharing your story. I know and believe it will have a happy result. I definitely have experienced several trials that all were going on at the same time and was confused as to why. Whew! But if I have learned nothing else, it is that God is faithful and is our strong tower 🙂

  7. I really appreciate your testimony. God will always bring us out of any situation no matter what the circumstances is. God is our strength.

  8. This was an awesome post, and an awesome testimony…you are an amazing woman of God, and I know God has sooo much in store for you and Matt in the future!!

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